In one way or another I’ve been trying to change the world through activism, the arts and the not-for-profit sector ever since I can remember. And I finally reached a point where I was disillusioned, disappointed and close to burnout.
My dear friend asked me at the time ‘so if you could do anything in the world for a job, what would it be?'
My reply was immediate ‘some kind of sex therapist’.
And so here I am now, working with bodies, offering services that help people, in their bodies, to discover and expand their own sense of sexual aliveness and freedom. Relevant training and experience is listed below, however the experiences gained on the journey with friends, supporters, mentors, lovers, play partners and peers has been absolutely priceless in helping to shape me into being the best ‘some kind of sex therapist’ I can possibly be. I feel honoured and privileged to be doing this work and to be changing the world one body at a time.
Ethos and Practice
I live and work from a sex positive perspective, embracing and integrating my shadow, respecting my own choices and the choices of others and doing what I can to promote healthier attitudes, perspectives and behaviour around sex and sexuality.
My fundamental values are non-judgement, compassion, integrity, honesty, professionalism, consent, respect, curiosity, openness, trust, fun, sensuality and pleasure.
I am passionate about offering a “safe space” where you can relax without expectation or the need to please or perform, a time where you can immerse yourself in your experience; moving out of your head and into your body. You are always encouraged to experience, notice and communicate whatever is going on in your body at any given time. I will support you to recognise and communicate where your edges are and in your choice of how far towards those edges you wish to explore. You will never be expected or invited to go beyond your edges, yet I can support you and hold space for you in a session if you find yourself there.
Relevant Training and Experience
- Leora Lightwoman: Levels 1-3 and assisting on other courses
- Jan Day : 18 month LTT8 Living Tantra Training and assisting on LTT10 Living Tantra Training
- International School of Temple Arts: Level One
- Practitioner training completed March 2018
- Currently completing training with The Sea School of Embodiment, Dawlish, UK. Graduation expected in September 2018
Wheel of Consent:
- Like a Pro with Dr Betty Martin. Booked for September 2018