The Men’s Programme

Feeling there is something not quite right in the bedroom department can hugely affect our levels of confidence, not only in relationships but in other areas of life; in the locker room, in the workplace and socially. Some men keep it a secret, avoid being in a relationship or talking with their partner about whats worrying them rather than admit that something is not quite right or seek help. And for many men the fear of ‘being discovered’ creates a whole other kind of embarrassment, anxiety and stress in itself.

If you are reading this now, maybe you are ready to move away from worry and weight and take the step towards exploring your pleasure, better intimacy and increased sexual confidence.

Bringing together the latest cutting edge approaches to sexual healing and advancement, this Men’s Programme is specifically designed to work around key issues that affect many men in a safe, structured and open way. Some of these include:

  • Ejaculation control and ejaculation choice: non ejaculation, premature ejaculation and delayed ejaculation. Learn to have real choice about when you ejaculate. Discover the secrets of multi-orgasm.

  • Erectile dysfunction: whether its an ‘age thing’ or something blocking your sexual enjoyment, we can explore non Viagra based ways to regain pleasure and confidence.

  • Building sexual confidence and body confidence: Whether you are 25 or 55, very few of us have had honest and practical opportunities to ask the unaskable, to learn and to practice sexual techniques. Most sex tends to be reliant on a mixture of guesswork and telepathy. Here is your opportunity to explore

  • Becoming partner ready: Whether you are new to sex and relationships or are looking to start dating again after a time away, this programme can help you bring fulfilling sex and relationships into your life

  • Sexual expression: explore your own pleasure, what turns you on whether this is a fetish, kink or just plain unusual, we can work together to find safe and liberating ways for you to discover your own unique sexual expression

  • Is your issue not mentioned here? Check out the list below and get in touch to see whether we can work together around this

If you have experienced difficulties around sex, then you’ll be aware that it can be difficult to get help from your GP. Talking therapy can sometimes help but often what’s missing from these professionals is the power of touch which can enable lasting changes. The Men’s Programme offers an opportunity to work with a practitioner who has the training and experience to create a safe place; a place where through a combination of talking, coaching and hands on touch can help you to navigate your way to finding what works for you, in your unique body. The Men’s Programme is designed to take you on a fast track to gaining sexual confidence, to help you to (re)discover and acquire skills that help you be more in touch with your own body and therefore better equipped to explore intimacy with another.


6 sessions across a period of 6-12 weeks

  • The Opening session: This is a standalone session that lasts 2-3 hours and includes intention setting, get-to-know-you games, and an erotic massage. This session is an opportunity to get to know each other and an introduction to the way I work. 

  • If you’d like to continue working together, there is a 5 session package which you can sign up to as follows. Each session is 2 hours long:

    • Session 1: Your body and your arousal: how it works, sometimes why it doesn’t and how to work with what you’ve got.

    • Session 2: Her body and her arousal: your chance to explore the intricacies of female arousal and find the answers to the questions you never dared ask.

    • Session 3: Exploring sexual well being: choice and better bedroom communication for you and for her.

    • Session 4: Touch: 21 different erogenous zones. 6 different types of touch. How, where and why.

    • Session 5: Bringing all of the learning together: This is a practical session where you get to practice the skills you have learned during the programme 

  • Each session is 2 hours long. The programme includes daily ‘homework’ of enjoyable activities and practices that will help to deepen your understanding of what we discover during each session


Usually sessions are on a fortnightly basis and the programme takes 12 weeks to complete. Arrangements can be made for sessions to be staged at shorter or longer intervals depending on your circumstances.


There are three pricing plans available

Option 1:

  • Opening session which lasts 2-3 hours at £200, followed by

  • A single payment discount: 5 for the price of 4 (saving £200) one upfront payment of £800

Option 2:

  • Opening session which lasts 2-3 hours at £200, followed by

  • Pay as you go discount: 5 for the price of 4 (saving £200) pay a £100 deposit upfront and then pay as you go for sessions 1 to 4 at £160 and session 5 at £60

Option 3:

  • Opening session which lasts 2-3 hours at £200, followed by

  • Payments on a come as you please basis at £200 per session.

Other Options

Available as one off sessions or on top of the 5 session package:

  • Erotic Massage: experience erotic massage for yourself or learn to give erotic massage

  • Fetish, taboo and the shadow: an exploration of desires that are often suppressed and how these can be brought out of the shadows to find a safe and healthier expression

  • Power and Surrender: dip your toe into the waters of tie and tease and surrender

  • Anal pleasure: erotic massage which includes a rosebud massage and prostate massage

  • Pornography: why its addictive and how to use it wisely

  • Self Pleasure: Joseph Kramer says change the way you masturbate, change your life.! Explore new ways to enjoy your own body, gain confidence, pleasure and release shame

Each session last 2 hours and cost £200 each

A range of other sessions can be explored by arrangement, talk to me about what you’d like to experience

Ready to take the step?

Begin by arranging your free telephone discovery session